Pick-Up Artist Techniques

The first thing that some guys do when they meet a girl is to show off that they understand every game.

They’ll start to talk about evolution, alpha males, how they know that women are more intimate than men and how women will always cheat on their boyfriends.

Now that is so nonsense as “The Talk of Death”

Let me tell you why, and also I will give you an idea of what to do instead.

As what I have learned in pick-up, these kind of conversation is very poor with women especially with the hot ones.

This will not work for the girl that any man in his right mind would be attracted to.

There are a few major things wrong with this strategy:

(BTW - if you happen to meet a girl that loves this kind of stuff, by all means talk about it, I’m just saying it should not be used for most of female population as an ATTRACTION strategy)

1. It puts a girl on the defensive. It’s like one country revealing it’s battle plans to another country that it is at war with.

It shows that you are “thinking too much” about the dynamic, which not only is a big turn off, but also makes her think you’re going to be a mind-trip.

2. There are chances that the woman’s awareness level is about 10% of yours.

Especially if you’re keeping up on my newsletters about the concept called “Stepped Awareness”.

Have you tried playing a song you LOVED for a friend and they just didn’t get it?

It’s because their awareness didn’t go through the same process that yours had - and ended in you really liking the song…

Don’t you think it’s too alien and weird sharing about “the unique mating patters of the bonobo apes and how it relates to girls in the club”, to a girl that spends the majority of her time thinking on having a new shoes, celebrities and her problems with her boss.

It’s the same reason why you’ll sometimes see the biggest AFC ever with a smoking hot girl. He’s normal, and she can easily introduce him to her friends without embarrassment!

3. For a woman that DOES understand it; what you’re talking may seems like a big deal, when it should be plainly obvious.

There are about 5-10% of women that actually can get this stuff. It’s obvious, intuitive and accepted for them.

These women tend to also like women, capable of having an open relationships, and generally a lot of fun.

But here’s the thing - the guys they end up dating ALSO get this stuff intuitively.

And when you get something intuitively, you’ll never go out of your way to convince another person of it, or explain it like it’s some huge revelation!

So the minute you do, the women who are most eligible for the lifestyle you’re looking for, will instantly disqualify you.

So here’s what to do instead.

These are one of the most powerful techniques I use:

- Understand society’s programming,
- Understand her specific programming, and;
- Appear to be under the exact same programming.

Keep your knowledge of REALITY to yourself (and of course, if you figure out anything amazing, I would appreciate it if you share it on my forum as well)

You’re going to see a big difference in your game.

And I want to be part of it.

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