Pick-Up Artist Techniques

Is meeting women feels like a WORK to you?

And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you’re
doing you’re still not getting an inch closer to your goal?

If you answered YES to either of those questions, then READ
ON.

In fact, dating game can be quite frustrating.

Seeing a woman that you like but has already a boyfriend.

Everything is going smooth and fine between you and a woman
and then just suddenly she’s not returning or answering your
calls.

Not to mention the fact that as the man you pretty much have
to do everything to move things forward.

In your approach, you have to have the courage.

YOU have to keep the conversation going at first, YOU have
to escalate physically, YOU have to get HER number or rack
your brain to figure out a logistical way to take her home,
YOU have to plan the date.

Men are much higher than women when it comes to the
standards of behavior.

(Let’s not started on that…let’s just say women are
allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they
are “beautiful.”)

That can be debilitating, especially if you don’t have an
“extroverted” trait.

…I just had a client who often complained of “extroversion
fatigue.”

I knew exactly what he meant because I used to struggle with
it too.

Before I began to teach myself pickup, I would go out, and
be mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.

I would have to sit down and rest!

Come to think how strange the situation is, I am supposed to
have fun and relax but instead I am working harder than I
was at my full time job.

I would go home absolutely dead

… from SPEAKING TO WOMEN!

Does it make sense to you???

And there was the overall, general dating fatigue. The
emotional ups and downs, the discouraging results, the
effort I had to make just to get women to hang out with me
or to sleep with me.

It is just like I am having an overtime in my full-time job!

When I first got in this game, I literally had to force
myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I
admit, I was a nerd, and pushed it to the extreme.)

But what can I say, I was passionate about learning all this
stuff (and not to mention extremely eager for results after
years of sexual frustration).

I would push myself like professional athletes push
themselves in the gym.

I was working muscles I had never used before, or to be more
precise, I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS.

If you can relate to any of this, then you are probably
working too hard in your interactions with women.

There are three reasons for this.

First, being socially proactive may be new to you.

I recall when I first started lifting weights, I didn’t have
upper pectoral muscles - the muscle at the top of your chest
just under your clavicle that make your chest look big.

Actually I do have a small muscle but it was so weak that I
can’t even feel them. So every time worked them out I was
incredibly sore and could barely move my arms. And it took
me three good weeks to really feel them.

And then I reached a tipping point of sorts, where the
muscle was developed enough that I could handle big amounts
of weight without all the soreness and fatigue. Your mind is
the same way.

You need to push yourself harder everyday in accordance to
the level of your skills. Because developing a new
neuro-pathways will take time.

Another reason you may feel social fatigue is because you
think there’s too much to do or learn when meeting women.

It’s not really so much about “fatigue” but it’s more on
having an overwhelmed feeling.

Being overwhelmed by certain thing can cause exhaustion to
your mind that can lead to some sort of discouragement and
depression. It’s somewhat saying “ugh, I’ve had enough of
this too much. I’m giving up”

This will hinder you from doing any progress. I was in this
situation when I was putting a lot of theories on my notes.
And as I looked at them I’ve seen that I am just like
looking for a huge and complex physics equation.

Doing ALL of this stuff just to had a quality women in my
life was so discouraging to think.

The last reason for feeling exhausted in the dating and
mating game is that you are spending too much mental energy
in the wrong places, wasting your focus on stuff that isn’t
useful to pickup.

Many men fails in attracting women and in fact almost 99% of
men gets it wrong. Usually the women can’t tell because most
men after a harsh rejections learn to keep their inner
“stuff” to their self.

But of course we can’t oppose to the reality that when a guy
is attracted to a girl, he is trying his best just to win
her or at least know if the women likes him too.

It’s the man’s role to IMPRESS the woman and EARN a
fulfillment for your urge from her - as what we get from the
media, our parents and friends.

So Pathetic!

I see some advertisement of a guy bungling around to a cute
girl trying to impress her, and looking like a fool while
the girl giggles like she’s better because she is woman. - I
hate that kind of thing.

Ok enough ranting… the point is that most guys are
screwed when it comes to being in control of their dating
lives.

But if a guy takes the time to adjust the way his MIND works
when it comes to attraction, it changes everything.

Once you get to highest level of your interaction with
women, you will truly be attractive to them. You just need
to be at your best both physically and emotionally.

A GUY AT HIS BEST.

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