Jul 14 2008
Dating Tips: Attracting a “10″
If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a 10, then I think you’ll find this letter very interesting.
But first off, let go waaay back…
When I was in high school, there was this girl in my class who was perfect.
She was intelligent, cool, and so beautiful that it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t stop my eyes looking)…
She was friendly to everyone and was one of the popular kids in school.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I wanted to ask her to senior prom so badly…but I chickened out at the last minute.
It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I’ve talked to a lot of guys and this experience seems pretty common, there was this ONE SPECIAL GIRL who you crushed on from afar, or you missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart…
Ah, the unreachable “10,” a perfect woman that every men dream but seems hard to attain.
I have a lot to say about the concept of “10’s,” In deeper sense they are another “breed” of women, but it is on the way they think that makes them so.
Understanding the reality of the extremely beautiful women and understanding your own fascination for a perfect women will help you resolve this conundrum, and might even help you in finding your “perfect girl.”
First of all, the concept of a “10″ is a myth. There is no such thing as a perfect human being. No woman is more “valuable” just because she looks nicer than other women.
The woman that is perfect for you is the one who can turns you on and have a great chemistry with you. That is the only true “10″.
Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10’s, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.
Treating a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier is a recipe for failure.
Why?
Because almost all men do that.
The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.
But there definitely are certain women that seem on another “level” of beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.
Like I said, you shouldn’t treat them “differently.”
Let me clarify.
You shouldn’t treat a woman BETTER than the other women. But there are things that you need to know.
First, she is sick of guys chasing her for her looks alone.
She wants to be appreciated for her personality more than anything else.
Now for your own sake I’m going to give you a heads up.
There are two types of “10’s.”
Low self-esteem and high self-esteem.
The pretty common is the low self-esteem 10’s. Women here have a guilt complex. Because they are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn’t EARN that attention.
In fact, most of their lives are probably coasted, and are in complete dumbasses.
It may sounds not good but I call it like it is.
These type of women will respond to jerk-behavior. Taking away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back.
Anything.
(Aside from that, these women usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)
Meanwhile, the high self-esteem 10’s are women that have had a taste of the elite - early from the start they realized that high levels of society were attainable to them, they exert an effort be intelligent, successful and make the most of their lives.
These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.
Usually HSE 10’s are intellegent, have good attitudes, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
Actually, most of beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
And here’s another interesting thing. These women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
It is because they have high standards for themselves, and this makes most men either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s rare that they meet another man who is on their level.
But here’s the good news. These women are the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.
The Attraction Code is about being the best man you can be, being a “male 10.”
You will notice an interesting thing if you start to apply the Attraction Code.
You’ll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they’re not on your level - it’s what I call the Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently…you’ll be amazed to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”
She thinks to herself, “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you’ll also enjoy plenty of “adventures” with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are bunch of 10’s out there waiting for you.
Don’t spend another year missing something that you could’ve been enjoying right now.
Vin
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